Backpacking Bitches

I started a new blog to plan, discuss, and eventually document this annual trip. 

I sent out invitations to people whom i have saved e-mail addresses for but i'm sure i did not get it out to everyone. The site should be viewable to everyone so feel free to give the site out to folks! But please e-mail me because i want to know who is interested!

So anyhow GO VISIT "Backpacking Bitches!!!"

First Annual All-Girl Backpacking trip!!!

Ok Lovelies!

I have been day dreaming about getting this going for years now and i think this may be the first year it is a possibility for me.

I want to start an annual all-girl backpacking trip. It will be in the fall (sept, oct, or nov). I'm trying to figure out the best way to get everyone's input on this event. Any ideas on the best online collaboration tool for this? i have no idea who, how many, or when anyone would be interested in this so it'd be good if we all had a way to discuss.

ideas?

My new imaginary boyfriend

This is Jonah Lehrer.
 http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2010/07/will_i.php

Aside from writing interesting things for various interesting publications and being a decent writer he's absolutely adorable! i want to dip him in the lemon meringue pie and put him in my pocket.

no what i mean is, "will i dip him in lemon meringue pie and put him in my pocket?"

Missed one!

Oh my freakin' god i totally missed one of the best things at the party!

Jessica Hopkins' (Ben's sister) Lemon Meringue Pie. It was phenomenal! Truly amazing. I won't even attempt anything of that caliber... what can i say... i'm lazy...

 (again this picture was thieved from the internet somewheres...)

My Birthday Party

First i would like to say a HUGE, MASSIVE, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART, FANTASTICALLY GIGANTIC THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!  to Jessica and Eric Dymond. You guys are truly amazing, generous, sweet culinary geniuses.

So, in honor of the big 29 (yes, i've decided i'm no longer 30, i'm now 29 again), Jessica and Eric hosted my birthday party. Mostly because i'm lazy and didn't feel like having it here, and also because Jes is also turning 29 again this year and understands all the b.s. that i'm feeling over it.

Now, I'm a jerk and can't seem to remember to take pictures and because of that this is going to be a semi-lame post. But maybe i can find some stock photos of the food they made online and that will at least make you drool all over your keyboard and short circuit your computer and then you'll no longer care that i'm just not capable of taking pictures...ever...

They made:

Shrimp Spring rolls

Chicken Satay
With the most amazing peanut sauce i've ever had!

Sangria

Margaritas

deviled eggs

tomato, mozzarella, and basil salad

And Terri made a fantastic wheat-berry salad which i keep eating for breakfast. (which i couldn't find a picture of the exact kind she made...)


I'm sure one day i'll get nailed for infringing on copyrights or something but in the mean time enjoy these stock photos of the food we enjoyed.

And to all of you who could make it, Thank you for coming and watching me get tanked. You're all very sweet.

Generally speaking, and compared to other parties this year, it was a very laid-back, tame party. and perhaps just what we all needed. It was good to see you all.

I'm glad to know i'm going into my second 29th year with such good friends who love me.

Article on Parenting from Laura Socks

All Joy and No Fun

Why parents hate parenting.

 it's long but worth the read. thanks Laura Mae!
http://nymag.com/news/features/67024/

Shopping Post! - Cutest Tea Kettles EVER!

ok, so i've decided to do some random shopping posts like Rare Bird Finds or the likes do. So this week it's tea kettles because DAMN who doesn't love a freaking cute as heck tea kettle??

All of these can be found on etsy. I think if you click the picture it will take you there...

I'm an insane person...

I'm a mess.
I'm so incredibly insecure and self conscious these days. Could be just hormones. Could be that i stopped nursing Asa and the inevitable impact from that is taking hold. Namely, gaining weight. Can't keep eating like a nursing mama when i'm not... stupid love of and weakness for food.

I'm so tired.

Work is killing me. There's only so much niceness i have in me -- and it's not a lot. it's not even on the low end of average... and now it's pretty much empty. I hate being nice.

i'm going to be one of those lonely old cat ladies but i won't even be nice to the cats i'll just kick them around so i have someone to be mean to...

And now i'm 30. PPPFFTTT!!!

(think i'll get caught if i start putting wine in my coffee mug at work?)

A parenting post

Okay, so I didn't want to jinx it but I'm just too damn excited and even if it goes back to normal now we'll still have had this oasis of joy and well-restedness.

Since the wedding, which involved house guests (a family of three- the absolute cutest family EVER, hi walkers!!!!) we have been putting both kids to sleep upstairs in *gasp* the kids room. During the house guests ben and I slept up there too on the futon sofa bed thing. Well, we decided to keep it up for a bit. Now before everyone gets too syked for me, this involves ME (not, under any circumstances short of death, Ben) putting both crazy kids to sleep. It's a bit intense, like when I'm reading a book to Esther Asa is trying to climb over my face to pull the covers off her which ultimately results in a fight. But somehow we manage to break through the first stretch of restlessness with few tears and minimal whining and low and behold some crazy magic takes hold and zonks out at least Asa and then if Esther is still awake I count to twenty and rub her back and then leave her for ten to fifteen minutes and go up and do it again until she falls asleep. Now to the lot of you who are shaking your heads at this intense circus - this is a HUGE improvement. A) Asa is no longer sleeping in our bed!! B) Asa is waking up only once at night and Esther is sleeping through the night more often than not. Yes, folks Esther has finally almost started sleeping through the night (she's only 3.75 years old). And C) it no longer takes Asa an hour or more of crying, fussing, throwing himself on the floor, and pulling out his own hair and Ben's while trying to fall asleep.

So yay for us. Now if only it keeps up... And we can kick this cold we all seemed to get at the end of last week.

Sent from my iPhone

First day of the thirty-first year of my life. Total success. Thank you mom, babies, ben, and ceci!!! And and all of you who sent me birthday wishes. you're all so very sweet!!!

Jeremiah and Cecilia's wedding.

we're still recovering...
just finished off the kegs yesterday... (the wedding was saturday)
the last guests left town monday night...
my children now have colds...
and i think i still have a hang over...
and i turn 30 tomorrow...

it's just not a family event if there isn't some sort of dog pile...

Turning shirts into other shirts.

WARNING: this video contains me in a bra and cords at one point. Nothing bad but if you're of the uber modest variety and prefer to NOT see that don't press play!

(ok, also when i say "...night time shirt..." i mean like for going out dancing or on a 4th of july midnight date for fireworks, not like pajamas...also, sorry for being such a weirdo...)

Bachelorette Weekend...

(photos courtesy from j, taken on her iphone... )

 (the bride-to-be... drinking champagne in the street...)

 (in the subway...and i know i look evil, i don't know why i smile like that...)

 (dinner at sheep station...)

(and in the subway...)

For another post in the future - the shirt i'm wearing in this picture is actually a shirt i bought from goodwill or somewhere and am wearing upside down and haltertop fashion... I'll try to do step by step instructions on how to turn clothes into other clothes on the future post...

Ain't he beeeooootifoool?

It looks like he's wearing fishnets here, but it's actually just the shadow from the netting around the trampoline (which is where i'm taking the picture from)...

Our pre-dinner cabaret show... hehehe.

coming soon to a blogpost near you...

The girl-weekend in Brooklyn, NY.
It was very fantastic!!!! I almost felt childless again...

Belated Father's Day post

we had a very pleasant father's day. We spent the morning with my parents having brunch (omlets, bagels with cream cheese, smoked salmon, and capers, watermelon and berries right off the bushes) on the new deck. the afternoon with Ben's dad, and sister, and her husband. We went to get ice cream... we came home and Ben put his new grill to good use cooking up the tenderloin for this lovely taco salad. We ate dinner with my parents.

Hope everyone else's father's day was just as joyous and full of tasty treats!

(photos courtesy of Jessica Hopkins, Ben's sister)

He's cheating on me with twitter...

Ben has a secret twitter life. Well, not so much secret because i know about it. But i'm not allowed to follow him... i'm not allowed to know his account name or who he follows through that account... and I'm ok with this. or at least thought i was until recently. Now i'm feeling jealous of twitter...

She (twitter) makes him laugh. He spends every spare moment with her or thinking about something she said or thinking about what he's going to tell her next. Every night for hours he just stares at her. My children compete with her for their daddy's attention. She's beautiful and fun and makes him feel young and unencumbered again.

And i want him to have that. i do. i really do.

so how do i stop wanting to hunt him down on twitter and secretly read his tweets? i don't want to be THAT kind of wife. the spying kind... the jealous kind... the needy kind... the old ball and chain...

But Twitter, if you're out there reading this. I want my husband back... or at least parts of him... maybe we could work out some sort of joint custody...

Pictures from Logan and Marcie's wedding...

yes, i'm very incapable of doing anything in a timely manner...